Because he was angry when I was successful, when I ditch his BULLSHIT advice and did things my own way, and lost 10 kg in 3 weeks!!! And he was livid.
Because the abuse ramped up when we came home. Because he insisted we rushed back 600 kms south home immediately upon landing, when I could have spent another week at my friend’s near the airport. Only to dump me upon arrival, leave all his dirty dishes in the sink, let me move his things for him in the new flat we rented before flying out. And he went to Barcelona, on his own vacation, alone. And he texted me the WHOLE TIME. Like he missed me or something. I have to admit I felt GUTTED.
Because I loved him like a brother, whereas he hated me.
If you were a writer for HBO, how would you rewrite the final season of Game of Thrones?
Because he said to his new supply that I was a pervert and an exhibitionist, when DUH that was the whole point, to get a rush BECAUSE I don’t usually do that, and to do it on the other side of the world so no one but select friends would know I did it. Straight guys streak all the time, why can’t we gay guys do it ? Btw I could have just joined anyone on Grindr and go be naked on a beach with them, probably would have gotten sucked off too, but I stayed with my bro on a sexless vacay. In fucking Greece… And I never ever pointed that out to Little Cockblock.
Because I did him favours, and he never returned them, and kept taking and taking and taking.
Because he sabotaged me, not the other way around. He was a nutritionist and I got fat from staying at home after Covid, and having moved to the other side of the country I couldn’t ride my bike to work everyday and didn’t have access to open water for my bi weekly swim, and I got allergic to some foods after covid, so I doubled my weight. He declined giving me advice. When he did, it was bad advice, like do a crash diet. And when I said can you elaborate he said just eat chicken breasts and vegetables, with a bit of oil. And when it didn’t work, he SHOUTED AT ME that I put too much oil, and he had said “a little”. But “a little” isn’t “how much”.
Recently, I cleared my JP Morgan coding round. Next, I received mail for a video interview. What kind of questions are asked in this round? How do I prepare myself?
Because I wasn’t the “straight” guy hitched to a gay man, he was. I was gay, what was his excuse for being with me if we were more than just friends and partners?
Because he projected onto me. He said I wanted to have sex with him since I was gay. I said I have sex with whoever I want whenever I want. I took out Grindr and got 4 taps within 1 minute. I did not need him for sex.
Because at the taverna after the nude beach, by candlelight, speaking softly and flirtingly, he reverse-loved-bombed me asking me what he meant for me : boyfriend, friend ? And I enforced a boundary that I wasn’t going to fall for a straight guy, so we were just friends and not to read into my getting naked in front of him. There is nothing more narcissistic than someone coming out to you by saying “YOU love ME”.
Is there a musician who has publicly stated that they do not want their music played by the Trump campaign or at a Trump rally? If so, who and why?
Because he future faked me, pressed me to buy a flat together, got hitched with me, and then broke things off abruptly for a girl he met 3 weeks after.
Because I’m not a narc, duh.
Because he pseudo-victimized himself. For instance, he said it was abusive for me to get naked in front of him, BUTT, I told him I was going to Greece on my own and he tagged along of his own volition, knowing that I wanted to do THAT at least once. I told him I wanted to go to a particular place, get a naked picture of my butt doing the Hussain Bolt stance on a rock to sent to a friend who did the same thing, and he said OK and he said that’s funny. And then once we were there he refused to go to a nude beach, so I said fine stay here, I’ll go. And he STILL tagged along. And he took the picture, and then he complained that I abused him by forcing him to see me naked… On a nude beach with dozens of naked people around 🤷🏻
Why is my Whirlpool fridge not cooling but the freezer works? What is the solution?
Because he was an asshole who offered to buy me things but asked for his money back after we broke up, and took all my new clothes with him. Then he complained to his new supply I was controlling and playing Barbie with him. But Barbie liked her new rags, she took off with them.
What a weird question.
Because the lies came from the other side, not from me. And he was caught red handed by 5 people who put two and two together when he decided to harass me and come to my place at night and make my phone ring non stop until I would come outside. Two people were on my side absolutely, one person called him out for being an absolute jerk coming to my place at night and calling a disturbance, and the fifth one was his fresh new supply who realised as we gave rebuke after rebuke that he was the problem.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Because he screamed at me because I asked him to take my picture for a change.
Next, because HE WAS a narcissist.
